
09-02-2009, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted by srmom
Everyone does "dirty rush" if that's what they want to call it. There are no promises made, there are no gifts proffered, etc. Summer is just used as a time to get to know the girls when they come to town for orientation; they might go out in a group to dinner, or accompany a group of pnms to a fraternity event - that's the extent of the dirty rushing.
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That's the impression that I was getting. They all do it to get to know the girls, and it's nothing that promises girls a bid.
Question: Do you think the dirty rush accusations come more from PNMs who are not familiar with UT and summer events thinking "Oh I went to dinner with XYZ! That means they must really like me and I'm getting a bid!" whereas girls who are familiar with UT know better than to think that a summer invite = a bid (because they know how common it is?)
Also, I assumed that most girls get bids. I mean, if most of them weren't, then every chapter wouldn't have matched quota. I said this before, but I find that unfortunately, here on GC, we hear a disproportionate number of unhappy endings from bigger schools for a number of reasons.
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