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Originally Posted by tess190
But on the flip side my buddy who has known me for about 10 years told me that I have become a sorority snob and dont talk to people that I knew before I pledged. I still talk to my other friends, but I just dont talk as much as I use to because I am busy with work, school, games that I work at, and of course sorority things. I try to hang out with my friends as much as I can. I will admit that I do hang out with one of my sisters almost daily because we are very close and we are a lot alike, but we are on campus together and in the sorority together and both hold positions that we work together a lot with.
Should I just forget what my buddy told me and just do my thing? Or, should I take some time to try to fix his and my friendship? I just need some advice because all my sisters have different thoughts on it and I just would like some more input. Thanks all  |
I'm sorry to hear that you're having problems with a friend.
I had a similar experience--I had a close girlfriend in college who was quite vocal about how she hated the Greek system. She was also quite territorial and possessive of me, which I was able to ignore for the most part. I was able to keep her unaware of my sorority membership (despite the fact that I wore my pledge pin everyday for months!) until one day, I believe the semester after I pledged, she noticed and was really upset.
She got over it, but she complained about it for a while until she realized that I was pretty much the same person, just with an additional set of friends. I think her being upset was based on a lot of jealousy and fear that someone else would take my time away from her.
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