Please don't stalk the PNMs

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by shadokat

Figuring or finding out a PNM's school = not stalking. Going on facebook and trying to find said PNM is stalking. Also, saying " be careful bettyPNM, I know what school you're at"...it sounds a little crazy to me. All that being said, I can agree that if you're posting something online, you should expect it's going to be read. It's common courtesy to not disclose the information publicly on the thread, because if bettyPNM wanted us to know what the sororities are or what school she's at, she would've told us. THAT is my point, end of story.

I'm trying to figure out where in the world all this CRAZY STALKING is going on with people looking PNMs up on Facebook.

Oh that's right, it's NOT HAPPENING and you're just pulling it out of nowhere.

You clearly haven't been here for awhile and have no clue what you're talking about.

I'd like you to cite your source, please if you're going to say that we are stalking and being CRAZY.

[epchick]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

I'm trying to figure out where in the world all this CRAZY STALKING is going on with people looking PNMs up on Facebook.

Oh that's right, it's NOT HAPPENING and you're just pulling it out of nowhere.

You clearly haven't been here for awhile and have no clue what you're talking about.

I'd like you to cite your source, please if you're going to say that we are stalking and being CRAZY.

either they are pulling it out of their butt, or they are referring to me. When I said I wonder where my rec crew was going and that I might check to see if they have bid day photos up on Facebook.

[BellaBerlee]

Originally Posted by epchick

either they are pulling it out of their butt, or they are referring to me. When I said I wonder where my rec crew was going and that I might check to see if they have bid day photos up on Facebook.

Or talking about me too. I found my rec on facebook and found out where she went. I was excited for her, especially knowing her code and preffing my chapter.

I don't consider it stalking, if you know the girl and her name. Heck, so many people on facebook see a friend of a friend and click on their profile to "check them out."

[shadokat]

No, I wasn't talking about you either...it was a general statement. You KNEW the person, as you wrote a rec. That seems fine to me.

I will go crawl back in the hole for where I was, since my credibility is shot

Originally Posted by BellaBerlee

Or talking about me too. I found my rec on facebook and found out where she went. I was excited for her, especially knowing her code and preffing my chapter.

I don't consider it stalking, if you know the girl and her name. Heck, so many people on facebook see a friend of a friend and click on their profile to "check them out."

[KSUViolet06]

Oh and while we're on the subject, I am also curious to know how we could possibly Facebook stalk PNMs when we don't even know their NAMES.

I mean, how are we going to stalk someone when all we know is that their school has 10 chapters and their username is PinkPNM21?

Oh wait, we can't.

[UGAalum94]

Originally Posted by shadokat

I will go crawl back in the hole for where I was, since my credibility is shot

Not shot, just not established.

ETA: this was apparently a more insulting comment than I intended. I just meant that it doesn't seem unreasonable that someone would want to know what you knew about this issue. I don't know or remember enough of what you've said previously to simply accept your post as gospel without your reminding me why I should. Not that you're obligated to establish yourself to me.

[pbear19]

Originally Posted by UGAalum94

Not shot, just not established.

I'd disagree with that. Shadokat has very established credibility with some of us.

But I'm not surprised by the reaction, as I've seen evidence in a few recent threads the last couple of days that the board is back in a pissing contest over who has enough posts to matter.

[UGAalum94]

Originally Posted by pbear19

I'd disagree with that. Shadokat has very established credibility with some of us.

But I'm not surprised by the reaction, as I've seen evidence in a few recent threads the last couple of days that the board is back in a pissing contest over who has enough posts to matter.

I don't think post count really matters although I'm guilty of saying something about it in another thread (don't try to moderate a good moderator no matter how many post you have).

But I do think it's important that you establish why anyone should accept what you are telling them. If you post all the time, people have some experience with you and might know your history, but if you don't or haven't in a while, there are a bunch of newish users who have no reason to know that you know what you are talking about.

I have no idea why shadokat is an expert on pnm stalking.

[aggieAXO]

"I'd disagree with that. Shadokat has very established credibility with some of us.

But I'm not surprised by the reaction, as I've seen evidence in a few recent threads the last couple of days that the board is back in a pissing contest over who has enough posts to matter. "

ditto to this