Has the tradition of Legacies outgrown its usefulness?

[AOEforme]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

See and I don't think that's something that Rho Gams should tell girls.

Because who you want to be when you grow up doesn't always fit best with the type of people you like to be around and what your personality is.

Nevermind the whole "pick the house" statement because recruitment doesn't typically involve picking so much as ranking them.

No, totally. And while it was well-meaning, most girls weren't like "Hey, this house is classy and mature. They are all professional, well-put together women who are socially gracefully and kind. "

It was more like "Hey- these are the hot, pretty partiers who date the best fraternity men. I want to be them."

[BlueCarnation]

Originally Posted by AOEforme

No, totally. And while it was well-meaning, most girls weren't like "Hey, this house is classy and mature. They are all professional, well-put together women who are socially gracefully and kind. "

It was more like "Hey- these are the hot, pretty partiers who date the best fraternity men. I want to be them."

So true. And that's why legacies are such a tricky issue. I really thought I had a well-reasoned argument on this, and as I go through the recruitment process right now with my chapter, I am beginning to rethink it. It's just so tricky.