Thanks again for your wise answer. My daughter has been in the fortunate situation of being able to "drop" those she ranked lowest-but as she said-there are a lot of great sororities and she is not saying who or how she ranked, ever. Why hurt someone's feelings? And just maybe your own chances for success in the process. There really are enough plenty of good sororities at FSU for all sorts of girls who are willing to maximize their options.
And one further thought, she- and I hope others who had recs written for them- will be thanking everyone who wrote a rec. I know I appreciate it when those I recommend let me know who they pledged. It doesn't matter whether they pledged my sorority, it's just nice to know the time you spend writing for the girls is appreciated.
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