On my college campus there were greek and non-greek organizations.....on my campus the non-greek organizations there were Kappa Sweets and Omega Perals.....I pledged Kappa Sweets because thats the organization that i liked....and i didnt have a boyfriend that was a Kappa...I pledged non-greek to see if i can pledge greek....but i left school before i could pledge greek....but i can say that it was a good experience because i met people i didnt know and i gain lifetime friends...Being in Sweethearts are not about being with a Kappa....it's about assisting Kappa's with community service and events....But we still need to remember that before alot of the these ladies became greek a lot of them pledged non-greek....they just don't like to own up to up because they feel as though the non-greek organizations are beneath them....but for me it was a great experience......