Dear auburnmom09,
My daughter rushed at Auburn last fall & i can sympathize with you on what a difficult week you're both having. My daughter was a legacy also, but pledged a different house so encourage her that things usually work out for the best even though it might not seem to at the time and also go to all pref. parties she is invited to. It is so difficult sometimes to tell much about a sorority during rush and she shouldn't limit her opportunities for membership. Good luck to you both.