Is she pregnant?

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by dreamseeker

well, other than the (harsh but true) advice given here, it should go without saying that if she is indeed pregnant and decides to keep it, you should get a paternity test.

and PLEASE, learn from your mistakes. that's the one thing you can control.

If she is pregnant I hope she does keep it. Either that or give it up for adoption. I hate it when people use abortion as a form of birth control.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

If she is pregnant I hope she does keep it. Either that or give it up for adoption. I hate it when people use abortion as a form of birth control.

Having an abortion because you were on the pill and it didn't work (somebody has to be that 56/100%) is NOT using abortion as a form of birth control.

[dreamseeker]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

If she is pregnant I hope she does keep it. Either that or give it up for adoption. I hate it when people use abortion as a form of birth control.

so do i.

Originally Posted by 33girl

Having an abortion because you were on the pill and it didn't work (somebody has to be that 56/100%) is NOT using abortion as a form of birth control.

maybe so, but i still cringe @ the thought of abortion in that situation. but, i also realize that the available choices in an unexpected pregnancy all have very difficult cons, even adoption.

[VandalSquirrel]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

If she is pregnant I hope she does keep it. Either that or give it up for adoption. I hate it when people use abortion as a form of birth control.

Originally Posted by dreamseeker

so do i.



maybe so, but i still cringe @ the thought of abortion in that situation. but, i also realize that the available choices in an unexpected pregnancy all have very difficult cons, even adoption.

Sometimes people use protection, it fails, and have an abortion because they have other health conditions or are taking medications that would affect the fetus or their health. I'm taking three medications at the moment that are not healthy for a fetus or during breastfeeding, and I told a man in my life that until I'm off those medications I am not interested in a physical relationship as I am not okay with getting pregnant and being faced with a) an abortion b) going off my medication and having poor health while pregnant c) taking the chance there aren't birth defects d) having a miscarriage if I chose to continue a pregnancy that didn't start out healthy. Not all women who take medications that are unsafe for fetuses will make the same choice I do, but sometimes things happen and just be glad it isn't happening to you.