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View Poll Results: Did you get your first choice NPC sorority?
Yes, I received a bid from my first choice sorority. 124 68.51%
No, but I received a bid from another sorority and it worked out GREAT! 45 24.86%
No, but I got a bid from another sorority, and it worked out okay. 9 4.97%
No, and I ended up not joining a NPC sorority. 3 1.66%
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Old 08-06-2009, 09:39 PM
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Yes and no. Probably more yes than no. (Yes as in, I got my first choice)

I say this because "first choice" doesn't necessarily mean first choice on your preference card. Many PNMs get cut from a chapter that they considered their first choice before preference.

When I went through, I was enamored with one chapter and they cut me before preference. I did cry, I was upset, but I also got over it pretty quickly. After going to all of my preference parties, I knew I could find my home in any of the chapters that invited me back. I ranked Sigma Kappa first, so yes I did get my first choice and I was psyched to be there on bid day.

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Old 08-06-2009, 09:41 PM
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I was thinking "first choice from among your pref. parties" - sorry for any confusion. But I guess it works either way - however you wish to interpret it.
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Old 08-06-2009, 09:44 PM
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I was thinking "first choice from among your pref. parties" - sorry for any confusion. But I guess it works either way - however you wish to interpret it.
I answered yes because at the time of filling out our pref cards, I wasn't stuck on trying to get another chance with the chapter that had cut me.
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Old 08-06-2009, 09:48 PM
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Do you want non-formal recruitment girls to answer? I mean, I was a COB girl so I only rushed one sorority, and I got a bid. So technically, I got my first choice, lol.
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Old 08-06-2009, 09:51 PM
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Sure - the more the merrier. If you want to explain a bit, do. I thought it would be interesting for pnms to see the range of experiences we've had.

eta - As of now, it's 50/50 between first choice and non-first choice but it worked out GREAT.
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Old 08-14-2009, 11:24 AM
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Do you want non-formal recruitment girls to answer? I mean, I was a COB girl so I only rushed one sorority, and I got a bid. So technically, I got my first choice, lol.
Same here. We were a local at the time that I went through COB but I received a bid and started jumping up and down. We then affiliated with ASA so I'm a proud founder of my chapter.
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Old 08-06-2009, 10:57 PM
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Yes and no. Probably more yes than no. (Yes as in, I got my first choice)

I say this because "first choice" doesn't necessarily mean first choice on your preference card. Many PNMs get cut from a chapter that they considered their first choice before preference.

When I went through, I was enamored with one chapter and they cut me before preference. I did cry, I was upset, but I also got over it pretty quickly. After going to all of my preference parties, I knew I could find my home in any of the chapters that invited me back. I ranked Sigma Kappa first, so yes I did get my first choice and I was psyched to be there on bid day.
Ditto here - I was in love with with a chapter (and only slightly less enamored with another) before pref, but neither invited me back for pref. So while I did get my first choice at pref, it wasn't necessarily my first choice overall. Though of course now I'm enamored with choice

And I voted same as you VP
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