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View Poll Results: Did you get your first choice NPC sorority?
Yes, I received a bid from my first choice sorority. 124 68.51%
No, but I received a bid from another sorority and it worked out GREAT! 45 24.86%
No, but I got a bid from another sorority, and it worked out okay. 9 4.97%
No, and I ended up not joining a NPC sorority. 3 1.66%
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Old 08-16-2009, 02:53 PM
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It's nice that it worked out well for you, but something like this usually doesn't always work out like that for everyone. Too often girls rush only one chapter, don't get a bid, and wind up anti-Greek - when they could have found their home if only they had looked at the other chapters.
I think it's the difference in the type of school, too. "Being in a sorority" was not a big deal for most women, and I don't know of a single woman who became anti-greek when she didn't get a bid. Not to say it didn't happen. There was so much else to do at school that others simply made different choices.

I think those of my generation, at least at private and independent schools, also were less concerned with what anyone else did than is generally true today. I don't like to make such great generalizations usually, but it was a different place and time. I don't even know if it would work at CMU today.
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Old 08-07-2009, 02:56 PM
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After Round 1 and 2, Alpha Gam was my number 2 choice out of 18 and 10 chapters. I was cut from my number 1 after the second round. After 3 and 4, they were my first choice, but I would have been happy with my second choice at Pref. I definitely never would have fit in at my third choice.
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Old 08-07-2009, 03:56 PM
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Another COB here! I was in love with one sorority, and am very happy with my bid
I enjoy reading recruitment stories, though. Formal recruitment sounds very stressful!
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Old 08-07-2009, 06:36 PM
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Alpha Phi was the only house I wanted to join from the first day of rush and I'm glad they liked me as much as I liked them!
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Old 08-11-2009, 09:14 AM
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COB here, but I chose the second option...I went through rush and pledging for a local on my campus, dropped 3 weeks before my class got in, and then did COB with another chapter and SDT (checked both out) and was offered a bid to SDT and 6+ years later here I am with the most amazing sisters one could ask for!
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Old 08-10-2009, 11:45 PM
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As far as my pref houses, yes, I did get my number 1, and I was totally thrilled on bid day. I KNOW I could have been happy in my number 2 though, they HAD been my #1 until skit round (which was the round immediately before pref)
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Old 08-11-2009, 10:44 AM
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Old 08-11-2009, 11:16 AM
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I guess I am technically in my second choice. I was a COB girl but had been told if I went through formal I would get a bid to my first choice. I decided to look at COB just to see what the sorority girls were like, and found I loved and still love DG.
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Old 08-11-2009, 11:30 AM
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Alpha Phi was my first choice from day one, so I was thrilled to open my bid day card to find them on there. I also preffed DG, I think I would've been happy there but they had some 'reputation issues' throughout my 4 years at school.
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Old 08-11-2009, 03:03 PM
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Can anyone tell me how the recruitment process goes? Do you write down your choices then they pick? This is my first time going through recruitment and I want to make sure I know what I am doing when I first go in there.
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Old 08-11-2009, 03:34 PM
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Can anyone tell me how the recruitment process goes? Do you write down your choices then they pick? This is my first time going through recruitment and I want to make sure I know what I am doing when I first go in there.
The Recruitment Counselors (Rho Chis/Pi Chis/whatever) should explain this to you in an orientation or something BEFORE recruitment, but this thread explains the process a little:

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=54403

In general, you are NOT just writing down choices, it is a MUTUAL selection process.
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Old 08-12-2009, 11:50 PM
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I knew I wanted Sigma Kappa from day one, and I was so glad when I opened my bid card and saw their name!
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Old 08-13-2009, 09:20 PM
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I absolutely got my first choice and never regretted it for a moment!
I think I would have been okay with my second choice but later on when I was a senior I looked at that other house and their membership was no longer so swell.
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Old 08-13-2009, 10:14 PM
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Mine's another long story. (And I don't know how to add a link to it.) But I voted Yes since the question was based on who you Preffed.
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Mine's another long story. (And I don't know how to add a link to it.) But I voted Yes since the question was based on who you Preffed.
This has got to be one of the best Retro Recruitment threads: Leslie Anne's Retro Recruitment With A Twist! Enjoy!
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