Quote:
Originally Posted by 33girl
You have it right - the chapters at Bama, LSU etc have girls signing up 6 months in advance and are receiving recs - so when the girls walk into rush parties, they really aren't complete strangers. As opposed to the girls having up until the day before or even the day of to sign up, as I assume you guys have.
It is VERY backwards, for girls anyway. See my earlier post. It should be one of two ways:
-If first semester freshmen can rush: fall rush should be structured and formal, this is when most people join, women rushing must visit every sorority at least once. In the spring, a minimally structured or completely nonstructured rush can be employed.
-If freshmen have to wait till second semester: fall rush is primarily for upperclassmen and is minimally structured. Spring rush is formal.
The whole point is - freshmen should NEVER be allowed to join a sorority without meeting all the groups at least once. (Again, this applies to girls.) It completely flies in the face of all the regulations NPC has made over the years to make things fairer for the sororities and for the rushees.
|
This is the problem... no one even has to sign up. The one thing that they added to the upcoming fall recruitment period is a kick-off recruitment event (like the one we have in the spring). The PNMs are required to attend parties put on by each chapter, but there's no sign-up, so if a PNM doesn't attend that event, it doesn't matter. They can just show up at the next one put on by which ever chapter they like.
My chapter doesn't do this, and I'm not implying that the others do either, but it leaves room for people to believe that other chapters are telling girls who are interested in their particular chapter, "Don't worry about showing up to this event.. just come to the next one."
And another huge problem is that sisters here don't understand the whole concept of "meeting every chapter" and "mutual selection" and "we're all Greek together". Hell, I didn't when I was at school, either. Only having COB puts everyone into a competitive mindset. However, I try to explain things like this to them, and they look at me like I have two heads. And because COB is all they've ever known, I try to tell them that the point of COB is basically to "fill in the empty spaces after formal", but they don't understand.
I tend to be believe that this whole system of first semester bidding/spring formal will throw off the entire total/quota process.
And I also think that waaay too many things are changing at once, without any of the smaller details being given a second look.