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07-16-2009, 09:38 PM
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I know many people in sororities think that a co-ed Fraternity shouldn't be calling their "pledge trainer" a "pledge mom" because it might scare away the males, I have to beg to differ. Speaking from experience, I was in a co-ed Fraternity and we had a pledge mom.
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33girl was also in a co-ed fraternity as well as a sorority, so I'm guessing she speaks from experience too. Speaking from my experience (as a guy), I'd pretty much agree with what she said.
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The guys in my pledge class did not mind whatsoever, they in fact LOVED their "MILF". 
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'Cause that's the dynamic you're going for. 
FWIW, we (in my non-co-ed fraternity) had a very simple way of telling probationary members who their big brothers were -- your big brother pinned your probationary member pin on you at the pledging ceremony. I liked that way of doing it.
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07-16-2009, 10:52 PM
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33girl was also in a co-ed fraternity as well as a sorority, so I'm guessing she speaks from experience too. Speaking from my experience (as a guy), I'd pretty much agree with what she said.
'Cause that's the dynamic you're going for.
FWIW, we (in my non-co-ed fraternity) had a very simple way of telling probationary members who their big brothers were -- your big brother pinned your probationary member pin on you at the pledging ceremony. I liked that way of doing it. |
I hadn't realized 33girl was also in a co-ed fraternity, my apologies to her. I wasn't trying to be condescending or mean or anything, just making a suggestion from my own personal experience. And the MILF thing was a joke, just trying to show that it didn't really scare the guys off....
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07-16-2009, 11:29 PM
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I hadn't realized 33girl was also in a co-ed fraternity, my apologies to her. I wasn't trying to be condescending or mean or anything, just making a suggestion from my own personal experience. And the MILF thing was a joke, just trying to show that it didn't really scare the guys off....
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Gotcha.
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07-16-2009, 11:49 PM
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Originally Posted by court4short
I hadn't realized 33girl was also in a co-ed fraternity, my apologies to her. I wasn't trying to be condescending or mean or anything, just making a suggestion from my own personal experience. And the MILF thing was a joke, just trying to show that it didn't really scare the guys off....
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Our APO chapter had enough problems with "incest" without calling anyone a MILF. Bwah.
At any rate, padprelaw (who is a poobah in the OP's org) has put the kibosh on any squealing or big/littling, so I don't know why there were any posts after his.
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07-17-2009, 08:25 AM
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Our APO chapter had enough problems with "incest" without calling anyone a MILF. Bwah.
At any rate, padprelaw (who is a poobah in the OP's org) has put the kibosh on any squealing or big/littling, so I don't know why there were any posts after his.
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I not only married another brother, I started dating her while I was a staff member and she was a member of a Petitioning Group/Pledge (Her "pledge class" was petititioners who joined after the charter application, so at chartering, they became pledges).
(take the issues of brothers dating pledges and get the RD involved.  )
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07-17-2009, 12:32 PM
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I not only married another brother, I started dating her while I was a staff member and she was a member of a Petitioning Group/Pledge (Her "pledge class" was petititioners who joined after the charter application, so at chartering, they became pledges).
(take the issues of brothers dating pledges and get the RD involved. )
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Now I got a question. If two brothers have a kid, would it considered a double legacy?
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07-17-2009, 06:57 PM
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Now I got a question. If two brothers have a kid, would it considered a double legacy?
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Although we don't have an official definition of what "legacy" means for APO, I personally would consider that child a double legacy.
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07-17-2009, 09:20 PM
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Although we don't have an official definition of what "legacy" means for APO, I personally would consider that child a double legacy.
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I guess David, Joshua and Nathan would be. I don't know of any APO brothers who had both parents as brothers, but its possible (First women officially in 1976 as full brothers). (My oldest will enter college in 2014.)
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