What to say/not say to a woman looking at NPHC?

[Titchou]

Originally Posted by Little32

As Sen said, this more than likely would not be an issue for another year to 18 months. Also, I would wait until she announces her membership before I start to ask questions. NPHC folk *generally* embrace the idea of discretion when it comes to MIP. So I would not ask her about anything unless she volunteers information first. But that's just me.

Thanks. This is exactly what I wanted to know. I am very aware of the discretion issue with NPHC and that's why I asked. I'm assuming she'll be looked at by both groups on her campus as her father is a very active Alpha and she's such a top young lady. I'm excited for her but did not want to intrude. Thanks again!