Is it worth it?

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by CaitFSU

At FSU orientation, which I just got back from, there was a small presentation that the new 'Noles could opt to attend for information and introduction to sororities and fraternities. Previously, I had not so much as considered joining a sorority but, on a whim, I decided that I would attend this meeting.

The meeting itself was not very informative but it did get me interested in the possibility. I did not know much about sororities, no one I know is an alumna, and so, upon arriving home, I decided to do some research into them. In my research, I came upon the obvious conclusion - it is going to cost quite a bit of money.

I understand that if I go for recruitment, I have no obligation to join, but even the recruitment will cost a good deal to buy the clothing as I do not possess formal clothes. I am wondering if it is worth the cost when I may not have any bids.

I am not the most outgoing of persons, and while I am improving upon this, I'm not sure I could stand above the other candidates to get a bid. However, the benefits of sorority life, the friends that will be formed, the philanthropic opportunities, the networking opportunities, and the opportunity to have a support system as I grow into a more confident individual is certainly something that I would like.

Honestly, only you can determine if going through recruitment is worth it.

Do keep in mind that if you did accept a bid, a sorority is a significant financial commitment, Be sure you can afford it.

[ThetaPrincess24]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

Honestly, only you can determine if going through recruitment is worth it.

Do keep in mind that if you did accept a bid, a sorority is a significant financial commitment, Be sure you can afford it.

Yes, it is a pet peeve for PNM's to go through recruitment, accept a bid/receive a bid and then suddenly decide they cant afford it when that spot could have gone to someone else.

Contact your college Panhellenic/Greek Life office. They may be able to give you a lot more information about the average financial obligations of the chapters. Also during all rounds of recruitment with the exception of preference (including the first day/open house when you will visit every house on campus) posters are displayed with that particular chapter's financial information on it. Any member you talk to should be able to give you that information in addition to what your dues will and wont include. Keep in mind every chapter has a different amount required for dues and what is included in them also varies.

Just because you choose to go through recruitment doesnt obligate you to stay in recruitment if you feel being greek is not for you. You can quit at anytime for any reason you like. While clothing for recruitment may be a significant cost for you, think of it as an investment. Whether you end up joining a sorority or not, you will still have a few nice outfits that can be worn on other occasions.

Only you can decide if recruitment/sorority life is right for you. I wouldnt make the decision lightly either. I believe (and someone correct me if I am wrong) FSU has a competitive recruitment where sophomores, juniors, and seniors may have a harder time getting bids.