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Originally Posted by Educatingblue
Call me old fashioned, but I have never been an advocate of people moving in together...maybe right before the wedding, but that's it. I just feel like moving in makes one or both of you complacent in the relationship and really no reason to move forward.
As AOII mentioned, if you are going to move, I would not move until you have a ring AND a date...and really you should wait as close to the wedding as possible if you are going to get married.
On the other hand, if you are OK with the moving in thing (everyone shouldn't be married) and will have no regrets in 10 years when you are still just living together and not married, then go for it...
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I completely agree with everything you said Eblue....if you're okay with not being married, then don't get married. I don't have a problem with that as long as it's truly what both people in the relationship want. I've seen a lot of people of both sexes just go for what the other person wants because they know it's the only way to keep their SO around....kinda sad really.
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