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nothing is a done deal, but i have to say to our op that she might have good reason to be concerned. while i have not been present at the membership selection and i am basing my opinion on conjecture, i have seen what appeared to be girls being released due to their legacy status to a strong chapter, only to then be dropped by the legacy house ,thus released from recruitment. it happens.
but how does one play the game? that i can't say. you could not list your legacy status on your recruitment enrollment form, ask your recommendation writers to not list it when they write a rec. to a non-legacy chapter, and not mention your status when conversing with members. if questioned by members,i would not lie-i would probably say something to the effect that my sister is a member of xyz sorority and she and you agree that you have to make your own mind up and find the place that suits you the best.
as others have said, nothing in life is a guarantee. put your best foot forward, be yourself and keep your options open. best wishes to you.
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Last edited by FSUZeta; 06-02-2009 at 05:08 PM.
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