I just need to vent. What a MISTAKE!!!

Senusret I · #1 05-11-2009, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by humblerumble

I appreciate all of the advice. I'm just curious as to why you've all assumed this is a NPHC organization?

Because NPC orgs don't say "Soror" and it just doesn't sound likely that it's a Multicultural or NALFO org.

Plus, because you said "induction" and not "initiation" I can almost guarantee that I know which sorority it is.

MexicanMami0286 · #2 05-11-2009, 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I

Plus, because you said "induction" and not "initiation" I can almost guarantee that I know which sorority it is.

Ditto...

humblerumble · #3 05-11-2009, 01:30 PM

could someone tell me what QFP means? Forgive me. I'm not hip to the lingo on this site

Thanks.
Also, out of respect for the org itself, all I can do is allow others to assume they know which one it is. I won't mention the name of the group, it's NPC/NPHC or NON NPHC/NPC afilliation, etc. I mean, I feel what I feel, and I appreciate all of your advice. I thank you all for not giving me a hard time about this rant. I just really needed a place and space to speak my mind freely and get this off of my chest. It's a pretty heavy load to carry....

TSteven · #4 05-11-2009, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by humblerumble

could someone tell me what QFP means? Forgive me. I'm not hip to the lingo on this site

Thanks.

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33girl · #5 05-11-2009, 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06

I know of one sister who became friends with as many alumnae as possible through Facebook, and ended up talking to one of them who got her a job after she graduated.

And I have to ask... how long have you been a member? Did you just join this semester? Because if so, remember that there will be many people who come after you. Maybe the chapter will gain some different new members and completely turn around come fall.

But if this is the case, and you did just join, and after another semester or two you are still completely unhappy, then consider dropping and becoming involved in something that you'll enjoy.

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Originally Posted by humblerumble

The chapter I came in through was smaller, and full of older women, so I didnt recognize this at first.

She is in a grad chapter of an NPHC or NALFO organization. "Semesters" have no bearing on her life. She is already what's considered an alumna.

On another note, if this NPHC, I would love to know what she thinks are "unladylike" colors. I mean it's not like there's a sorority whose colors are black and gray.