sigh: my daughter was kicked out of her chapter

[MotherlyLove97]

I'm just really upset. She wasn't a legacy either. It just hurts to see your children in pain ya know?

[kddani]

Originally Posted by MotherlyLove97

I'm just really upset. She wasn't a legacy either. It just hurts to see your children in pain ya know?

In pain? It was of her own doing. She knew the rules, she made a choice to break them. Your pain should be eased by knowing that your daughter is getting a life lesson in the consequences of breaking rules.

And if she did get "kicked out" for this offense, it likely wasn't her first time breaking the rules, or there may be more to the story than what you know. Sororities aren't in the habit of kicking out our members for every rule violation.

[Munchkin03]

Clearly, your concern isn't that her daughter disobeyed house rules--more than once, probably--and that her roommate was probably fed up with your shacking little princess, it's OMG WHY DID TEH SORORITY DO THIS TO MY POOR VIRGINAL DAUGHTER?!

Too bad, so sad. Hopefully your daughter learned her lesson.

[Thetagirl218]

A couple of things:

Originally Posted by MotherlyLove97

I'm just really upset. She wasn't a legacy either. It just hurts to see your children in pain ya know?

1. Since mom knows what a legacy is it leads me to believe that she is either a sorority member or familiar with the system....so this whole question than makes no sense!!!

2. Having a roommate shack up in your room, is not a pleasant experience, nor is walking in on them....I had a roommate who one semester decided she was bi-sexual...that was interesting...Thankfully, I graduated a few weeks later.

3. As everyone else has said, there is NO WAY this is a first offense....

4. I agree with the Ted Bundy comments. Regardless of being a guest or not, I think it proves that you have to be careful in this day and age...
Just a note: One of my aunts was a sorority member and lived on campus during the time of Ted Bundy. It still upsets her to talk about it...

[LadyLonghorn]

All I know is that if this happened to me (which it wouldn't because shacking in your room is against the rules and incredibly rude to both your roommate and other sisters), having my membership revoked would be the last thing on my mother's mind!

And yeah, I agree with everyone else that there were probably other things happening that heli-mom doesn't know about.