sigh: my daughter was kicked out of her chapter

Originally Posted by MotherlyLove97

If a girl is kicked out of her sorority because she had a boy in her room, staying with her at night on one particular night, and her room mate went and told on her..is this permanent? Does she have a chance of getting her membership back? She was living in the sorority house at the time and the boy who snuck in to stay with her was her boyfriend of about two years. I do not at all approve of her actions, but I feel like her punishment was very harsh. Is anyone familiar with policies concerning this or know of anyone being accepted back into their sisterhood after a situation like this?
Thanks!
let-down mom

My advice? Let your daughter handle it and stay out of it.

[KSUViolet06]

I can't really comment on this because every sorority has different policies.

I WILL say that, it is considered HIGHLY inappropriate for a sorority member OR her parent to post publicly about what is presumed to be private disciplinary info. What happens with a sorority and member discipline is meant to stay WITHIN that chapter, and is CERTAINLY not for member's parents to post about publicly.

I would be MORTIFIED if I knew that my mother were posting about this sort of thing on the internet when it is MY private business.

I can also tell you that depending on the sorority, her termination is permanent.

My advice: Delete your post, and leave sorority punishments and other sorority related situations for your DAUGHTER to figure out.

[indygphib]

Originally Posted by OTW

My advice? Let your daughter handle it and stay out of it.

Best. Pic. EVER.

Originally Posted by indygphib

Best. Pic. EVER.

I apologize for the size and how it might screw up some screens, but it was too funny not to post.

If I were in her daughter's situation, knowing my mom, getting me back into the sorority would be the last thing on her priority list. I'd be lucky if she and I were still on speaking terms.

[Shellfish]

Originally Posted by OTW

If I were in her daughter's situation, knowing my mom, getting me back into the sorority would be the last thing on her priority list. I'd be lucky if she and I were still on speaking terms.

I could have written every word in this post myself.

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by indygphib

Best. Pic. EVER.

Very best. OTW is now queen of GC for the rest of the day.

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by indygphib

Best. Pic. EVER.

I don't know. I think the pissing unicorn is still holding strong at #1.