Question for all my sorority girls! - Page 2

Scrubadub · #16 03-10-2009, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by annabella

I think the Mu Omicron Mu sorority is the only one with IHQ policy against shacking. The DAD fraternity will actually kick you out.

ETA: when you say you'd hate for anyone to get "in trouble" with a smiley face at the end do you mean like Penny got "in trouble" in Dirty Dancing? Because that would jsut be funny.

Ghostwriter · #17 03-10-2009, 05:04 PM

I think the Mu Omicron Mu sorority is the only one with IHQ policy against shacking. The DAD fraternity will actually kick you out.

ETA: when you say you'd hate for anyone to get "in trouble" with a smiley face at the end do you mean like Penny got "in trouble" in Dirty Dancing? Because that would jsut be funny.
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As a DZ Dad and a Kappa Sig (old man), I find this post hilarious. You women are quite clever. Hope I did this right!!! But I didn't so I will figure out how to make it nice later.

nittanyalum · #18 03-10-2009, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by annabella

I think the Mu Omicron Mu sorority is the only one with IHQ policy against shacking. The DAD fraternity will actually kick you out.

ETA: when you say you'd hate for anyone to get "in trouble" with a smiley face at the end do you mean like Penny got "in trouble" in Dirty Dancing? B
because that would jsut be funny.

Seriously, you are hi-larious!

FSUZeta · #19 03-10-2009, 09:40 PM

i think the op was just trying to run some of the sororities on her campus down. she could have asked the same question without naming sororities and gotten the same answers.

SWTXBelle · #20 03-10-2009, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Gusteau

slight hijack/rant

I hate it when people campaign for the position of sweetheart. Its not something you can apply for nor is it something you should have to earn. Its an honor bestowed on a woman who has become a friend to the members of a chapter. You shouldn't have to do them favors or bake them cookies or do anything like that, Real sweethearts become sweethearts because they do things out of the kindness of their hearts without any thought of the possibility of becoming sweetheart in their minds. And no matter what they tell you sleeping with multiple members makes you XYZ slut not XYZ sweetheart.

End hijack.

FWIW, back in the day I was not even CONSIDERED for sweetheart EVEN THOUGH IHQ though enough of my efforts on behalf of the then-colony to have their International President present me with a badge replica necklace. Nope, I was told I could not be sweetheart because I didn't sleep with the members (I replied that I was married to the president, but apparently that wasn't enough

). Once I figured out what kind of "dreams" they wanted a "girl of", I had a completely different view of ALL their sweethearts.

UGAalum94 · #21 03-11-2009, 06:20 PM

Not related to the OP really, but at my campus, at least when I was there and the groups I knew of, sweetheart or dream girl or whatever was an honor given to a girl well-liked and respected by a chapter, not someone slutting it up or even someone who officially helped the chapter.

I guess it must vary from campus to campus.

ZTA72 · #22 03-11-2009, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by FSUZeta

i think the op was just trying to run some of the sororities on her campus down. she could have asked the same question without naming sororities and gotten the same answers.

At best, she was not very panhellenic,. At worst, well, let me just leave that to everyone's imagination to fill in the___________.

Gusteau · #23 03-11-2009, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle

FWIW, back in the day I was not even CONSIDERED for sweetheart EVEN THOUGH IHQ though enough of my efforts on behalf of the then-colony to have their International President present me with a badge replica necklace. Nope, I was told I could not be sweetheart because I didn't sleep with the members (I replied that I was married to the president, but apparently that wasn't enough

). Once I figured out what kind of "dreams" they wanted a "girl of", I had a completely different view of ALL their sweethearts.

It's ok SWTXBelle, you got the badge and she got, well, herpes. From my personal experience with the situation sleeping around gets you blacklisted before it gets your sweethearted

SWTXBelle · #24 03-13-2009, 02:27 PM

Thanks - I found the perfect gift for J - the sweetheart who slept around -

#25 03-13-2009, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle

Thanks - I found the perfect gift for J - the sweetheart who slept around -

My mom used to get those Mrs. Fields large cookies for me every year on my Birthday. Except it said "Happy Birthday Sandy," obvi.

Those cookies are really yummy!

Gusteau · #26 03-14-2009, 08:10 AM

LOL - and literally not in the oh she can't tell I'm not really laughing over the computer way, but in the spitting things on the screen waking up my roommate way.

PeppyGPhiB · #27 03-17-2009, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by DDDlady

On my campus and a few others that I am familiar with, it is generally frowned upon to shack up at a fraternity house, although there are no hard and fast rules. I believe that would be up to the individual chapter, and those girls should know their own chapter's stand. Yet, on one the one hand, it can make your organization look bad, especially if your car or something is outside the fraternity house at 7 am. When people ride by, they do not think"oh.. Jane shacked at the XYZ house again." Its "a ABC shacked at the XYZs house!" Or "gracious, did you hear about the ABC that shacked at the XYZ house last night?"

On the other hand, it can make you look bad personally. You do not want to be known as the girl who always shacks at a certain house (or multiple houses!). It is just not classy or discrete.

This thread makes me think of the Walk of Shame clip from the movie Sorority Boys: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2dX-ofUewM