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Would you rather not be in a sorority than be in Sorority B? At MANY schools, freshmen have the best shot at getting into a certain sorority. You may have absolutely no chance at getting into Sorority A next semester, and also may have no chance at getting any bid if you wait.
My advice? You are already bound for a calendar year anyways...go to as many meetings, socials and events as possible with your new chapter. Give them a fair shot. Don't be that girl who doesn't go to anything, and don't be that girl who goes to events but close-mindedly. Wait and see how your pledge class, who your big is, etc. If after giving it a fair shot it still doesn't work, then depledge right before initiation but know that you may have no second chance at Sorority A.
I wish I could tell you Sorority A will magically take you next year, but I don't know that at all. Give this one a shot, chances are it will work out...every year, every school there are PNMs who this happens to and 90% of the time they end up loving the chapter they end up in.
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