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Old 02-01-2009, 10:57 PM
lsucajun8 lsucajun8 is offline
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I find this thread ironic because to my utter disbelief, my best friend and I are kind of going through a rough patch right now.

We went to high school together and did not really talk to each other, but then this past fall when I started college we just kind of clicked and we have been absolutely inseparable since then. She is absolutely my best friend and I am pretty sure that the feeling is mutual. We are very close, kind of like sisters.

The trouble has come in though just in the last week. We kind of just all of the sudden stopped talking, texting, calling, etc etc. I understand that two friends can not be around each other 24/7. I just am not quite understanding this sudden change in our friendship. I am all for giving each other space to chill out and take a break from each other, but why the sudden change? We are not mad at each other and she swears that nothing is wrong, but then I feel like I am walking on thin ice with her when i talk to her. Does all of this make sense? It is kind of complicated. I am not really sure what to do about this.
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Old 02-02-2009, 12:39 AM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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You said this has only been going on for a WEEK.

A friendship is not necessarily doomed because someone does not call/text/whatever for a week.

It can mean that she is just busy, stressed with school, meeting new people, or just may not be in the mood to talk right now.
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