Then you need to stay out of the ZETA FORUM with your unsolicited advice to them. You can't be in this thread as a confused aspirant and then be in the Zeta thread thinking you are their moral compass. It's funny because you are wondering about wearing the letters and colors to a program but you can't grasp the basic point they are conveying to you in their OWN forum.
If you don't know how to be silent in real life, you will be the ETERNAL ASPIRANT which is probably good for you because you seem to need humbling.