I would simply ask "When do you need to know my decision?" Just like when you are entertaining multiple job offers, it's in your best interest not to share that information. If they press for a reason, you can say something like "I want to make sure that I'm doing the right thing for me" or "I'd like to discuss this with my parents before I proceed" or something like that.
I would simply ask "When do you need to know my decision?" Just like when you are entertaining multiple job offers, it's in your best interest not to share that information. If they press for a reason, you can say something like "I want to make sure that I'm doing the right thing for me" or "I'd like to discuss this with my parents before I proceed" or something like that.
good suggestions, but wanted to add the obvious-don't mention the other sorority. good luck to you.
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