Just a few questions...
I'm a sophomore this year, and informal recruitment starts tonight.
Last fall, I went to a few open houses for one sorority, got a bid from a said sorority, and accepted it, before I really knew anyone. Long story short, I don't really fit with that chapter, and didn't get initiated.
My bid ran out in December.
So, I was planning on checking out the other 5 sororities on campus and I just had a few questions.
If a chapter decides to bid me, can they see that I had a bid from another sorority, and didn't finish with the new member program?
If at an interest party, it happens to come up, should I just be honest and tell them the reason I quit? (That I accepted my bid too soon, and then didn't feel that I really fit in with the chapter?)
Should I bring up the fact that even though I'm a sophomore, I'm probably going to be here for another 3+ years?
I'm in a professional fraternity, related to my major/minor, so would it be okay to talk about that a little bit? It's not part of PHC.
I'm sorry if these questions have been asked 293743298 times before, I'm just a little nervous.
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