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Originally Posted by GreenEyedGirl27
Wow. You guys are some of the rudest people I've ever encountered. It's not like I'm too busy for them. One, we don't have a house so I can't go there to hang out with people. Two, I have to go to the doctor once a month early on a Saturday and it just so happens that the mixers are always that Friday night, when I have to go home to go to the doctor early the next morning. And they are not planned months in advance, we get the dates maybe 2 weeks in advance. If everyone in greek life is as rude as you people, then it's better I leave.
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Try not to be offended- they really are just trying to help. I can understand your frustration because I was incredibly sick for a year- I had my position taken away from me, got called into e-board constantly because I wasn't at events, and really didn't know people well. I was extremely frustrated because I was going through something major, but I didn't feel like I could talk to my sisters about it. It's also difficult because you don't have a house- my chapter also has no house. I know you probably don't feel comfortable talking to people about going to the doctor and stuff, but you should
consider going to the mixers. I am telling you. Even if you feel totally ostracized from people and feel like you don't belong, show up at a mixer, and you will have closer friends the next day. You don't have to drink. You don't have to stay out all night. You can go home and be in bed at 11pm. But dont you think a little less sleep one saturday a month is worth having some good friends? Just give it a chance, and I promise you will see results.
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