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[UGAalum94]

Originally Posted by libramunoz

Miss UGA the advice may have been misguided but was done with honest intentions. The "attitude" only came when necesssary.

You were given the same "stay in your lane" comments that we all get. There was nothing necessary about suggesting it was the equivalent of limiting you to "the back of the bus."

I do accept that you meant to be helpful in your original comment though. One of the things about GreekChat for all of us is that we learn we don't know half as much about Greek Life, especially for members of other Greek Councils, as we think we do when we start.

[libramunoz]

Originally Posted by UGAalum94

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You were given the same "stay in your lane" comments that we all get. There was nothing necessary about suggesting it was the equivalent of limiting you to "the back of the bus."

I do accept that you meant to be helpful in your original comment though. One of the things about GreekChat for all of us is that we learn we don't know half as much about Greek Life, especially for members of other Greek Councils, as we think we do when we start.

Thank you for that! All I was doing was trying to be helpful not start WWIII followed by a thorough Douglass/Lincoln Debate. Correction can come as needed, I just find that in correcting others, it's just the way in which a person does so that can easily cause others to feel as though they are being "jumped on" for no reason and that can cause attitudes and misunderstandings very easily. Thank you Miss UGA.

[UGAalum94]

Originally Posted by libramunoz

Thank you for that! All I was doing was trying to be helpful not start WWIII followed by a thorough Douglass/Lincoln Debate. Correction can come as needed, I just find that in correcting others, it's just the way in which a person does so that can easily cause others to feel as though they are being "jumped on" for no reason and that can cause attitudes and misunderstandings very easily. Thank you Miss UGA.

Welcome to GreekChat.

For me it was an Alumnae Initiation thread; for you, swerving lanes here. Those of us who jump in with our opinions too soon often feel this way, but you learn. There's a pattern and personality that we don't get to set.