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Originally Posted by SydneyK
Oh, and if you like the idea of leaving if he isn't where he has agreed to be at the time he agreed to be there, then why put up with it at all? If you're going to leave without him anyway (and it sounds like you would after a week or so), then why bother dealing with all this crap? I just don't get it.
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I'm talking about leaving without him a couple of times to get a point across.
I'm looking for a way to deal with it because I love the guy and am honestly looking for a way to either cope with this or get it across in a non-nagging way that this is important.
An update - yesterday we talked about this again, and I told him that I felt most loved and resepected when he makes an effort to do things that are important to me that aren't second nature to him (writing dates on a calendar so that he remembers birthdays and anniversaries, remembering to call me when he gets home if he leaves really late and is really tired, etc.) In return I don't freak out if we don't make plans 2 weeks in advance, etc.
He told me that he will work on it and make sure to call if he's going to be late more than 5 minutes.
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