Advice for a new initiated member

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Give it time and definitely try to talk to your big or pledge mom about how you feel (don't tell them you wanna join another house though!). I kind of felt the same way after initiation but I think I was feeling like that because the new member period is hard and gets to be overwhelming. See how things go for a while to see if you warm up to it but like epchick and twinkle 555 mentioned, if you're in an NPC sorority, you can't join another one.