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Originally Posted by Remedyignae
1&2. Excuse me for my poor storytelling skills but its known on campus that sorority #1 hazes. At the time I didn't know about this because I am a transfer student.
3.Also I know the difference between hazing and pledging but its the way that the president said it and the attitude that she had.
4. I am asking for others opinions to see if anyone can relate to this same situation. I would like someone elses perspective. It could have happen to someone on here or maybe someone has an opinion on if a potential pledgee went through the same.
5. Don't you think that if someone has their heart set on you joining their organization that there would be conflict if you didn't? We work together on a daily basis and I don't think she is going to take it lightly that I've changed my mind.
6. Self-explanatory. I don't want there to be any drama involving me on-campus. I'm afraid that sorority #1 may not look at me the same, may try and slander me, & etc.
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If the chapter is truly hazing, then the advisors of that chapter should take action and stop it. So, I really would not worry about that.
I think you've come here looking for answers that
no one can tell you.
Going greek is a personal decision, we (the general public) can not help you.
If it feels right to join one group over another for what ever your reasons are, then go by that. In the end this is a life long decision and no one could or should tell you what to do.
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