Too many things working against me?

I didn't think I was allowed to say my school ... I mean it's fairly competitive. I will have a year and a half to spend in my sorority. If/when I get into grad school here that will be 2 more years. I know we don't have the upperclassman free quota thing...so that works against me. The sororities that are doing Spring rush are great girls, and I know some of them. I guess I just need to make connections . Any more advice would be appreciated!