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Originally Posted by sigmaceli
Oddly enough, as an alumna of your campus, I feel I know which chapters you have formed this opinion on as being in that situation.
My experiences as a dedicated alumna serving my national organization would not have happened had it not been for the chapters that you deem "struggling," even if they were not my own (OMG, not Panhellenic spirit! lol). I am honored to have been a part of one of those chapters, and it made me want to give back to my own national organization. I don't know if I can immediately say the same for those who will not have had an experience as difficult and rewarding as the one I had over the past few years. I hope to see my chapter succeed and grow in the future, yes, but I am absolutely satisfied with the character and caliber of the women that I call my sisters. You may not be able to appreciate them, but they deserve a bit more respect than what they receive on that campus.
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Well if you feel my comments and opinion were generated by a specific group on campus, then I apologize. It wasn't formed because of 1 or 2 orgs at my school.
My main reasoning for how I feel is that I empathize with organizations that are struggling and have only a handful of people working toward the betterment of their chapter, since I know fraternity AND sorority members in this situation.
Which is what I meant when I said this:
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I think it's a waste of time, money, and effort when these kind of chapters just linger on and on. It also isn't fair to the handful of individuals in a chapter like that who continuously strive to improve their chapter only to make little or no changes.
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P.S.- If there wasn't "chapters that dont meet quota/total suck" stigma already established by SORORITY women, then fraternity men wouldn't fall into that "fallacy."