Go easy, I was just having a little fun with the thread; don't beat a brother up. It's so funny because you can really tell the gender differences when it comes to $ex. When I tell the guys that the fine young lady wanted to stare into my eyes, they are usually laughing their a$$es off, or calling her psycho. One guy told me to "let that sh*t go." I just put it out there because I never had anyone FORCE me to stare into her eyes.
Now let me clear up a few things: First, the $ex was not a MAJOR goal, but I can assure you, that after the first date with a guy, he has turned his attention to calculating on when he is going to "seal the deal." (That doesn't mean he is there to disrespect you, but that he needs a little sumthin' sumthin' - you know what I mean?)
Look, I know that you ladies have to promote this notion of virtue with the "two months isn't long enough" slogan, but let's keep it real: You know, that I know, that you know, two months is MORE than long enough.
Heck, the last time I heard so many people systemically advocate that 2 months isn't long enough, I was in 10th grade. Besides, haven't you seen third date? They surely don't wait a full weather season to get "ja freak on."
Blueknowledge
BTW - I'm still with the "fine young lady" and I hope to be with her for quite awhile. So, I want to be clear: I was NOT exploiting the lady, but just surprised by an unusual bedtime request.
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