How can I up my chances

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by APhiAnna

Guess what? One night she got wasted with the sisters as usual...but this time she made-out with a sister's crush (she didn't even know the sister was interested in this guy!). No sex, just making out at a public party. Whoops. Anyways the sister flipped out and got in a huge fight with her. Not only did that chapter stop calling her, but other chapters took a step back. She was dropped first night by this chapter and some of the other competitive ones that had been seeking her out.

Moral of the story? Even if they are throwing booze and guys at you, tread with caution...don't be the "party pooper" but be very much aware that so much can go wrong even when so much is "going right".

Amen. I don't go to a deferred school, but I have seen the same things happen with girls. Girls can be catty/dramatic, and even moreso when drinking and boys are involved.

It doesn't take much either. You're out with the ABCs, and a guy that Ashley ABC really likes dances with you and you talk to him. Problem. You may not even know that she likes him, but it's still drama enough for her to decide she doesn't want you in ABC.

Or you're both drunk and you accidentally spill your drink on an ABCs shirt. It's not like you're sober and it's no big deal, but you're drunk so there's potential for "OMG my shirt is wet and I'm drunk and dramatic!" to get started. That's the worst because it doesn't make any sense, but it's still drama enough for one of them to think twice about you during recruitment.

Or one time you guys go out and YOU just happen to get more drunk than the other girls and you maybe do/say something dumb. Or you get wasted and puke in one of their cars or in their apt./dorm. Again, it might not seem like a big deal, but that's enough to make one of them think "do we really want this girl?"