Disappointed mom - Page 2

CrackerBarrel · #1 10-20-2008, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by awkward1

What the Hell?? I live in the south and have two children in SEC schools who are Greek and I have never encountered this type of social pressure!!!! Going Greek is not the end all be all here in the south that some people are making it out to be. Plenty of kids from prominent families don't even go Greek and it isn't an issue at all. Sorority rush is not a 'litmus test for proper raising' and being in a top sorority does not mean you were raised to be an upstanding young woman and most Southerners are well aware of this. I wouldn't be surprised if the OP was a sock puppet and the master was EW.

Where are we considering the south? Because I'm also in the south and agree much more with EW than I do with you. Every single kid I grew up with who was from a "prominent family" who went to school in the south went greek. The kids from pretty good families who didn't tended to be the same kids that seemed odd and other people whispered about how such and such raised a kid like that the whole time they were growing up. And yes, you can pinpoint someone's social status with a pretty fair degree of accuracy by looking at whether they were in one of about 4 fraternities or sororities at the state school. There are a few exceptions to judging people based on tiers, but people do think it's kind of funny when even with a (multiple usually) legacy you can't get into one of the good chapters at your school.

LaneSig · #2 10-20-2008, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by CrackerBarrel

Where are we considering the south? Because I'm also in the south and agree much more with EW than I do with you. Every single kid I grew up with who was from a "prominent family" who went to school in the south went greek. The kids from pretty good families who didn't tended to be the same kids that seemed odd and other people whispered about how such and such raised a kid like that the whole time they were growing up. And yes, you can pinpoint someone's social status with a pretty fair degree of accuracy by looking at whether they were in one of about 4 fraternities or sororities at the state school. There are a few exceptions to judging people based on tiers, but people do think it's kind of funny when even with a (multiple usually) legacy you can't get into one of the good chapters at your school.

But, how do the parents feel if their son transfers to a campus where his fraternity brothers are a bunch of "Shanes"?

KSUViolet06 · #3 10-20-2008, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by awkward1

What the Hell?? I live in the south and have two children in SEC schools who are Greek and I have never encountered this type of social pressure!!!! Going Greek is not the end all be all here in the south that some people are making it out to be. Plenty of kids from prominent families don't even go Greek and it isn't an issue at all. Sorority rush is not a 'litmus test for proper raising' and being in a top sorority does not mean you were raised to be an upstanding young woman and most Southerners are well aware of this. I wouldn't be surprised if the OP was a sock puppet and the master was EW.

Agreed. I just have a hard time believing that people in the South are just THAT stuck on rush results that having a daughter in a "lower tier" sorority is akin to raising Jeffrey Dahmer. Yes I know that there are moms who are very concerned with having their daughters join certain sororities, but this seems like a bit of a stretch.

Benzgirl · #4 10-20-2008, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

Agreed. I just have a hard time believing that people in the South are just THAT stuck on rush results that having a daughter in a "lower tier" sorority is akin to raising Jeffrey Dahmer. Yes I know that there are moms who are very concerned with having their daughters join certain sororities, but this seems like a bit of a stretch.

Glad to be in the Midwest and out of the nastiness and nosiness.