
10-13-2008, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by AOEforme
I also sincerely doubt the president would be stringing her along. You normally don't call people you don't want another look at and invite them to events.
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Right.
As far as I know, no national sorority requires any active member to a.) contact a PNM after they have been cut, b.) inform them of why they were cut, and/or c.) invite them to future events. Therefore, if the President of a chapter does all of these things, I wouldn’t take it as anything less than a good sign. Granted, it’s not going to guarantee your daughter a bid. But it shows that at least the person is considerate, and has thought of your daughter first for COB opportunities. But remember, since the President basically said, “Not enough sisters feel as if they know you yet,” it might mean that they’ll eventually get to know your daughter and it still won’t work out.
Asking questions about what has happened, and why, isn’t going to get her anywhere. All she can do is go to any events she is invited to, and see if that leads to a bid.
Hope she finds what she’s looking for!
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