There's a big difference between not blowing smoke and sunshine (which everyone pretty much supports putting a stop to) and repeating tired stereotypes which may or may not be true (and ripping on other chapters in the process).
No one said to the OP "I'm sure you will get into DG if that's the group you want." THAT would be blowing sunshine up her ass.
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