To Old to be an AXiD?

[MissingAXiD]

I left school after Fall of 2000 as a Sophomore. This Fall I re-entered school as a Sophmore. Being that all my sisters have graduated, I don't know anyone at school to talk to, have lunch with or spend the 3 hours between classes with. I surely don't want to go to socials or party with these girls. I have friends my own age at home to go out with. Sometimes I just think it would be nice to have a social outlet while here during the day. I guess I am too old to be an AXiD.

[AZ-AlphaXi]

I wouldn't say you're to old to be an Alpha Xi ... you are certainly younger than I am .. I was initiated in 1971. I'm very much still an Alpha Xi and involved as an alumnae.

Get involved with the alumnae association, get involved as an advisor, all are great options. If you'll pm me your school, I'll put you in touch with someone.

Originally Posted by MissingAXiD

I left school after Fall of 2000 as a Sophomore. This Fall I re-entered school as a Sophmore. Being that all my sisters have graduated, I don't know anyone at school to talk to, have lunch with or spend the 3 hours between classes with. I surely don't want to go to socials or party with these girls. I have friends my own age at home to go out with. Sometimes I just think it would be nice to have a social outlet while here during the day. I guess I am too old to be an AXiD.

There's no such thing as "too old".

I would try to contact their Chapter Advisor. Maybe she could introduce you to some of the collegians and you can let them know that you're a returning student and you'll be on campus if anyone would like to meet up for lunch.

Ditto on getting involved at the alumnae level!

[ree-Xi]

Originally Posted by MissingAXiD

I guess I am too old to be an AXiD.

If you were initiated, you ARE an AXiD.

Howerever, you said that you are looking to re-live (or live) the collegiate experience. At 29, you may be able to blend in, you may look or act young, etc., but what sets people apart, when it comes to age, is life experience. These girls are teenagers for the most part. While you may have interests in common, you are likely worlds apart in terms of the way you think, your priorities, etc.

If you want to get involved with nationals, why not contact the local alumnae association and set up a collegiate/alum event? Perhaps look into volunteering on behalf of Fraternity HQ. You can find the contact info for your area on the national website.

You can certainly befriend the ladies of the chapter - I would just suggest changing your expectations a little. There are also other outlets to forming friendships and associations on other levels and with people who share your lifestyle/goals/etc., because whether you believe it or not, you really are living in different worlds.

Don't try to "fit in". Create your own niche. I hope that you find what you are looking for, and do take up AZ-AlphaXi on her offer.