Well you have already gotten advice from one man in the GL forum, but I too would be interested in hearing what other men have to say about the issue.
You might need to start asking yourself whether you can be with someone who would give you such an ultimatum, when all you are trying to do is pursue one of your dreams. You might need to think about what kind of life you are in for if you have to fight this sort of battle everytime you want to do something that your friend does not whole-heartedly agree with. You need to consider whether that is the kind of life that you want. Really, you have to start thinking about what you want, because he is not thinking about you right now, he is thinking about himself.
Here's the thing, you may decide to pursue membership and he may get on board, when he discovers that you are going to do it with or without his consent or he may not, and you will have to prepare yourself for that.
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