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Just pledge as a freshman. Most people who do it come out just fine.
Try to be relaxed during the rush process. The best advice I can give is look for a house with a good diversity of people. I was pretty much a nerd back in the day (being a CS major might have been the first clue). This actually worked in my favor because the house I ended up going with was recruiting with that in mind.
You have to navigate the culture of the Greek system, and you have to navigate the culture of your campus. Stay open to new things, new experiences, and new friends. And if you're at a party where someone passes out lying on their back, roll them over onto their side, so they don't die the way Jimi Hendrix did.
That's all the advice I can give at the moment. Good luck.
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