Rho Chi Disaffiliation - How does it work?

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I was a Rho Gamma for Spring 07 formal recruitment. We had to disaffiliate from early October to bid day.

I think our rules are pretty lax compared to other campuses. We were allowed to go to everything internal with the chapter, meaning meeting, sisterhood events, Founders' Day, etc. I think we were also allowed to participate in Greek Homecoming activities (athletics, skits, Ms. Greek, etc.) because Panhellenic determined that it is an event that pretty much only Greeks go to. We are allowed to live in our chapter house, even during recruitment week.

Yes, it is hard to cover your tracks with facebook. Just because your profile is clean/blocked or even your account deactivated, it is hard to police all of your sisters' pictures with you in them. You can de-tag, but if they're still up, they can still be seen, particularly if a PNM is friends with one of your sisters.

Amazingly, none of my PNMs found out my chapter through facebook. A couple of them googled me and found a picture of me in the Sigma Kappa Triangle. Nothing I could do about that. A couple of them saw a picture of me in a scrapbook at SigKap. My face was covered, but I have short hair, and they were like, "You're the only RG with a bob." The only PNM in my group that went SigKap didn't know until revealing though!

I told my PNMs at the beginning that it is to their benefit to not know what chapter I am in, and therefore, to not try to figure it out. I assured them that I would remain unbiased at all costs, and I think they trusted me.