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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06
as adpiucf said, ask her why she's there! Sometimes potential new members are looking for a good group of friends. Sometimes they're looking to get involved on campus. Some of them are completely out of their element, and enjoy the fact that they're trying something new and random, and they're looking to see where it takes them. And when you ask questions like "why did you decide to go through recruitment?" occasionally you can immediately pick out the girls that you DON'T want. I see just on this site alone stories about girls who, when asked, say something like "I want to know which fraternity has the hottest guys." It's sad, but it happens.
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Absolutely. "Why did you decide to go through recruitment?" or "Why do you want to join a sorority?" is my favorite first question to ask a PNM (after introductions and a little small talk). Then you can talk about what made you interested in joining a sorority.
I actually had a PNM answer to that question, "I go to the bars and I see all the sorority girls together and I want to be just like them." I tried to change the subject but she kept going back to drinking, partying, bars, etc. I don't know if she thought it would impress me?
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