Who is rushing in Fall 2008/Spring 2009?

[NutBrnHair]

I have a guy friend whose daughter is going through recruitment at Univ. of Tennessee. She's a Kappa legacy. Last time I saw her she was 5 years old!

[phimu88]

my daughter is going through rush at Southern Miss right now ... and I am so very nervous!! She got online last night to talk about it a little (against rules ughh) but I was happy she got the chance anyway! lol

One girl told her sorority XYZ girls are all backstabbers... (she knew this girl from her HS volleyball team from 2 years ago) and she even went so far as to have her friend tell her these girls are backstabbers too! Sorority XYZ is her #1 choice... and I am afraid I may not have stressed how important it is not to talk about other sororities during rush. So I told her these girls are probably just bitter because they got cut from XYZ and not to listen to them. I am so very nervous because she told me a Phi M was talking to her and explaining how tough it is to be a legacy and how much pressure there is to join your moms sorority but not to let that be the detirmining factor in her decision... to me it seemed she was trying to tell her they didnt want her???? IDK maybe, maybe not... ok I am rambling ... nervous mom here.