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Originally Posted by EE-BO
You can fit into certain societal conventions without sacrificing your core self. Doing that for rush is good practice for real life when you go out into the world and make a living in your chosen industry and location which will have its own conventions. If you will be happy with acceptance into a chapter that can be a fun place where you can grow, then making these kinds of adjustments will be worth it- and you can do it without changing who you are.
Good luck and hope this helps.
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I don't mean that I need to change who I am, I mean is there anything that can be done (expressing interest, talking to some upperclassmen, use ties with sororities) that would make me appealing? I'm not the kind of person who would change to fit into a fraternity.
Ya'll have thrown out some great advice that makes me feel pretty confident, but is there anything that can be done that I might not already be doing?
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