Advice for a second-timer

[KSUViolet06]

As far as how sororities decide whether girls get invited back or get bids, that's part of the Membership Selection process of the sorority and is considered private.

As far whether having depledged last year will hurt you this year, it really depends on how your school is. Where I went to school, there were girls who depledged and rushed again, who got bids.

It's really hard to say whether you'll get a bid or not, but honestly, you have nothing to lose by trying again. You know that there are things you should've done differently, so I'd just go though again and see what happens.

[breathesgelatin]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

As far whether having depledged last year will hurt you this year, it really depends on how your school is. Where I went to school, there were girls who depledged and rushed again, who got bids.

This was true at my school, and I went to a fairly competitive school.

I would say in these cases a lot depends on how many and how close of a friends you are with girls in the chapter. If you have some friends in chapters and they already kinda know why you depledged, it might not hurt you at all. That's as much as I'll say.

Again, the worst that can happen is that you do not receive a bid. In that case, you're not in any different situation than you are now.

I do think you can probably expect to be released by the chapter you depledged. But I'm sure you've put that together on your own.