Football Team & Rush

[ree-Xi]

Originally Posted by DGwithagrey

Thanks guys! Would the same apply if they declined scholarships (money's not really an issue...) and are signed, not redshirting (that's joining without having been recruited, right? Sorry, despite attending every game and being a proud team mom, I really know nothing about the proper terminology, DH handled all of that)

I know that for many students, Greek life (or one's hopes of being Greek) can be a very important factor in choosing schools, but I cannot imagine giving up a scholarship simply to make it more convenient to pledge.

I guess if "money's not really an issue", then you probably have a different perspective. But making such a huge decision based solely on the premise that your sons would have an "easier" time pledging without the burden of a scholarship or coach on their shoulders, to me, is ridiculous.

Aside from that, there is no guarantee they are going to get bids. You might well be throwing that money away for no reason. Even if you can afford it, does it make sense to refuse it based on a "what if"?

BTW are they twins? Or are they in different schools, or different grades at the same school? You don't have to answer that, but you said that both your sons are in this situation.

PS Redshirting does not mean that they are a "walk on". Reshirting refers to the practice of having players benched (practice but not playing) for (usually) the first year to get used to and improve their game. Since NCAA only allows 4 years of play, if they got injured in let's say, the first game, that is one whole year of eligibility out the window. Some players who are injured at the end of a season may redshirt the following season bc they won't be healed enough to play the whole season. Not all freshman are redshirted, and not all reshirts are freshmen, but it happens regularly.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by ree-Xi

I know that for many students, Greek life (or one's hopes of being Greek) can be a very important factor in choosing schools, but I cannot imagine giving up a scholarship simply to make it more convenient to pledge.

I guess if "money's not really an issue", then you probably have a different perspective. But making such a huge decision based solely on the premise that your sons would have an "easier" time pledging without the burden of a scholarship or coach on their shoulders, to me, is ridiculous.

From what I got from her post, whether they are signed or redshirting affects their scholarship status. I don't think they're about to change schools at this point.

You're being way too hard on this mom, IMO.

[ree-Xi]

Originally Posted by 33girl

From what I got from her post, whether they are signed or redshirting affects their scholarship status. I don't think they're about to change schools at this point.

You're being way too hard on this mom, IMO.

I don't mean to be. What I read is that they may be willing to give up the scholarship if it meant that their coach would go easier on them regarding pledging.

To me, throwing away a scholarship "simply" or "only" in order to make it more convenient to pledge, is a waste of money. If there are other reasons to give up the scholarships, and not have the coach/team/campus burden on their shoulders, that's one thing. But from what I read, it would be simply to lessen the conflict of pledging AND playing at the same time.

Mom/OP - can you clarify?

Let me add that it IS your money and if you can afford it, more power to you. I just cannot imagine being in that situation.

[DGwithagrey]

I didn't think you were being impolite; however, I want to clarify that not being on scholarship has NOTHING to do with a desire to pledge. Honestly, my sons don't need an athletic scholarship to attend school--I'd rather not go into further detail in that regard. Thanks for the advice.

[ree-Xi]

Originally Posted by DGwithagrey

I didn't think you were being impolite; however, I want to clarify that not being on scholarship has NOTHING to do with a desire to pledge. Honestly, my sons don't need an athletic scholarship to attend school--I'd rather not go into further detail in that regard. Thanks for the advice.

Ok, good, bc I didn't intend to be impolite. That's fine keeping your info to yourself; in fact, I suggest changing some of what you wrote. I wish them luck at school, and wish you luck having 2 kids in college.

[TSteven]

It has been my experience that basically, those that participle in fall semester sports generally pledge in the spring. And those that participate in spring sports, generally pledge in the fall.

Now depending on the school, there might be summer rush happening right now. If so, they can attend the rush events now, hopeful secure a bid, and then pledge in the fall *WITH* the understanding that school related activities (i.e. football) come first.

Also, if a chapter is interested in them, and knows they are involved with football (sports etc.) the chapter may be more lenient regarding attendance at rush events and not require them to attend that many rush events. I know of some chapters that set up times for the brothers to meet with incoming athletes away from the scheduled general rush events. (As allowed by the IFC and the athletic department.) Again, all of this is with the understanding that football has to come first.

Otherwise, they might need to defer to the spring semester to rush. For what it is worth, at Kentucky (UK), the spring is when most of the football players pledged. Not that there were a lot who did pledge, but those that did, generally waited until the spring to do so.