getting rid of bigs/littles?

[WinniBug]

In our chapter, we have a "Momma Bug" - what the "Pearl Class" calls their VP of Membership Ed.
Then, each girl has a "Ruby Sis", who sponsors her through the Phoenix ritual, and is her temporary Big until the Big Sis revealing ceremony.

Sometimes, we have true twins...when one girl takes 2 littles at a time, but I try to discourage this. Quite often, a Big will take multiple Littles during different semesters.

What's y'all's opinion on the max. number of littles a member should take?

[33girl]

Originally Posted by WinniBug

What's y'all's opinion on the max. number of littles a member should take?

I honestly think this is one of those things that varies w/ every person...one sister might be able to be a fantastic, attentive, supportive big to 3 littles, and another sister might not even be able (or should I say care enough) to handle one.

What happens a lot of the time is there is a sister who takes on too many littles, feelings get hurt, so rules get put in place to prevent it. I don't believe that if a sister hasn't had a little, she should automatically get one over a sister that has had a little - it might not be a good match. But if it IS a good match, then a sister w/ out one should definitely be at the head of the list. Sure there are going to be times where the whole class wants someone for a big...but if she's had her chance for a little already, she needs to step aside.