Best Way to Talk to a PNM at Pref

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Just be aware that despite all your best efforts, and encouraging a PNM to "absolutely" list your chapter as her first choice, she may not place high enough or at all on your bid list, yoursisters may not be as gung-ho as you are about her, or she may not have grades, etc. There are many variables as you know.

You need to walk the fine line between "hard rushing" and getting someone's hopes up (which is what you would essentially be doing by trying to make her believe that your chapter should be her first choice.

Your actions could end up being classified as rush infractions.

I suggest introducing her to your sisters before rush wiht the intention of simply making an introduction; during recruitment, share her with as many members as possible so that they too (may) find her as fabulous as you do. Don't be tempted to contact her during recruitment to check in with her. You have to be fair and follow the rules.