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Will you be going through fall rush - if so, it is very likely that all of this contact is very much in violation with recruitment rules. Go to your university website and read their recruitment rules ( I am hoping it is online) or call the Greek Life office and just inquire about pnm/sorority member contact rules for the summer. If you find out that those sorority women are in violation, it is in your best interest to discreetly distance yourself from them. I know they have become your friends but if you can just try to avoid being with 3 or 4 at one time, it will be better for them and for you. In most situations, spending time with one member is not a violation, but one pnm with 3 or 4 members is a problem.
Regarding the email, I seriously hope she was using some poor comedic tactics. I am imagining it was sort of a "Ha ha, you are going through rush, we obviously love you and would never cut you, so I can be kind of sarcastic and snarky" comment. Unfortunately, as I am sure you have read on GC, THERE ARE NO GUARANTEES in recruitment. If you need to help her out, do so and don't read more into it than you really think is there. But, if you DO think she was serious, someone needs to know...
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