Rush - What to NOT do or say

[brwn skn 79]

As a non greek and a hopeful AI, I thank you all for the advice.

Originally Posted by brwn skn 79

As a non greek and a hopeful AI, I thank you all for the advice.

I don't get it.

In your first post, you introduced yourself in the Zeta Phi Beta forum. Now you thank us for the advice in a thread that has absolutely nothing to do with Alumnae Initiation?

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by OTW

I don't get it.

In your first post, you introduced yourself in the Zeta Phi Beta forum. Now you thank us for the advice in a thread that has absolutely nothing to do with Alumnae Initiation?

She may be talking about "rushing" for grad chapter. Still comes off kind of suspect though.

[DMBabyZTA]

Please please please I cannot stress this enough- If you have a problem with a specific group, maybe something was said to make you feel uncomfortable, tell your Gamma Chi (Rho whichever). When I went through I had a *not mentioned* sorority sister ask me how much money my daddy made. And since I went to college in the same town I went to high school she asked what part of town I grew up in. I was so blown away that she had the nerve to say such things. I went straight to my RC.. so if this or something like this happens, don't tell anyone else but your Gamma Chi.

Also, if you have to use the bathroom in the middle of a conversation with a sister, TELL HER. We had a girl pee herself.. not kidding.

And know that we are just as nervous as you are. After all we are going through this process to welcome our new sisters in the end. We have certain routines to go through as well. It is a very stressful, yet exciting time for you and the house's which you are visiting. Relax, breathe, be yourself, and have fun.

another thing... if given the opportunity take advantage of introducing yourself to every sister... making a good, lasting impression is key! (especially if it's the sorority you want to rush)

I hope this helps!! good luck